Why Do The Best Students Always Get The Hardest Tests...

I know...
Life sometime could be so difficult,
I will never ask for an easy one though,
I just wish for the strength to carry on,
and a friendly heart to catch me when I fall, 
so I can always adjust my step...When Life seems so uneasy or unfair
yet We still have to face the world
with the chin up and always stand tall...

Then We just have to believe
that the better tomorrow is exist
and always have trust in the strength within Us...

I should say...My own life has never been easy
for as long as I can remember...

But now I understand,
every tests made by the life
is never intended to crush me...

For the wound that cant kill me
could only make me stronger and wiser
when it healed completely...

Just remember...
The best student who dedicate their life to the universe
will always get the hardest test
for they will reach the highest level of existence
in the great life that they deserve as better tomorrow...

The Magic of His Perfect Creation in Me..

I may not be perfect but I do believe
God has created me with perfection
and I have a life time to prove myself He did so..

I will keep looking and going deeper
to my own being  till I found the magic
of His Perfect Creation saved within me..

As a woman, wife and most of all as a mother..
A never ending journey till I take my last breath
for the better life here in the universe..

Because I Love My Life...
And I intend to make it really worth living...

Even If The Moonlight Gone, Life Shall Go On...

When I watched over the night sky
Suddenly I felt so lonely
For I couldn't find the moon
Somehow it make me feel so blue...

Coz, I miss My Moonlight
In the darkness of deepest night
But no matter how blue
life shall always go on...
 
Even if the moonlight gone tonight
There will always be the sunlight in the morning
As long as we keep the faith tomorrow will be better...

Just keep on believing the darkness
only come to make the stars in Us twinkling...

When I Have Tears...

I just remember..

Tears is the best thing to wash my soul,
Not here to hurt me,
more to help me ease the pain..
Because...

The universe won't make me cry, 
unless there is an important lesson in life
I need to learn,
which worth my tears..

Heaven knows I am a fighter,
pain will never stop me from doing what I must,
and tears only come to soften my heart,
not weaken my inner strength..
 
 













And I never doubt that..

One day when the time come,
I will be glad telling the story,
that once upon the time,
I ever have those tears..

Gathering The Worst to Bring Back The Best...

When the availability change
and the best go away...

We can always have faith
time will tell...

That some things are meant to be...
That some dreams can really come true...

Then Let's start gathering the worst
to bring back the best...

Make The Change, Always...

It is so important
to make the change...

When we can not endure all the things
that happen in our life
then we should always know
this is the right  time
to make the change...

If we can not change the things on the other side,
then we must change the way we look at it
from the inside...

In that way, let Us hope
we can always live the life beautifully...

Get in Touch with The Spirit in People We Love...

Love can turn people in to something unusual
when collaborate with human will and interest...

While Love actually is
a Blessing in Human Spirit...

So, Let the spirit in Us
get in touch with the spirit
in people We love..

Hope that way,
we will know the best
how they want to be loved
and they will do so
in return...

The Fact of Real Love...

Is it true...?

If we have The Real Love,
then we hardly need words
to say what we have inside...

Coz, the connected spirit in Us
can feel each other
and understand what to do
automatically...

The Unique Me...

The unique me always need
a bunch of fresh love to be alive
and I gain love by sharing it...

I do love to love
and always keep on dreaming
about better tomorrow...

I keep the faith to make sure 
that the right action was taken
in order make the dream come true...

So, I call on the universe, fate and God Himself
Please do Help me...

Nothing Last Forever...

I have been through
those ups and downs...

I may have to face more downs
to get another up...

Nothing last forever,
but everything happen for a reason...

Heaven Knows I try,
Heaven Knows I pray...

Heaven Help Me,

Give Me strength
to Move on...

Follow Your Heart, Take Your Mind with You...

Your mind should never
tell your heart what to feel,
let your heart feel...

Then let your mind find the right way to do 
in treating the feeling...

Follow your heart, 
just don't forget to take 
your mind with you...

In heart lay all the truth 
how we should live this life,
and the mind will manage 
the right way to do so...

When The Good Days Back..

When the bad days turn to the worst....

In the heart We keep the faith
that the better tomorrow coming...

Through heart,
We listen to the voices from heaven,
to bring back the good days...

Although those good days never last forever,
they turn bad then worse 
even shift to the worst...

But at certain point there will always be a turn over,
when the good days always be back,
then getting better,
coz the best is on the way...

Me and My Pray, So Help Us God....

I will survive...
So help me God...
Please...

There will be time...
When a cry for help Answered...
Directly...

Alhamdulillah...
For all those time...

=======================

Dear God...
Would you please give me a hint...
Little piece of clue on what You are trying to make me learn...
By giving me this kind of life situation...

Please...
I'm waiting for The Info...
My phone, email, messenger and facebook is open 24 hours for you...
Just in case my eyes, heart, soul and mind are to blind to see...

===============================================

Will You Pray for Me...???


So God always Guide my way,
Back Up my feeling,
Brighten my thoughts,
And Lighten my spirit,

So I see all clearly,
then do only the right things...

======================

Dear God,


I rest all my love, thoughts, fear and sadness
on Your hands as I give back
all my plans, hopes and dreams
... to Your embrace.

Because You Know what's the best for Us.

Just a single request if I may,
Would You Let Me see The Reasons
for all that's going on clearly...

Love and Our Role in Universe....

Many people try to understand Love, some can really get the point but many fail to really comprehend the true meaning of love in their life...

And my own understanding of Love is on the move, it always changes as my life grows...

This is my Today Perspective on Love, pop up from my mind
as I read a friend blog :
http://veilofreality.wordpress.com/2011/06/10/all-you-need-is-love/

Love is the energy that rule the Whole Universe
Coming from The Source, Our Mighty Creator
Manifest in Life through every single living form of His Creation...

As the most complex creation on earth,
Love affect Human Life in A Complicated Way...

But once We understand the true meaning of Love
then we can get connected to The Universe and The Source

Love shall Lead Us to live The Life in Full Capacity
then We shall find our Own Role in The Universe
The Exact Reason why We Are Created on Earth...

Shit Happens...!!!!

When it does and bring Us to the lowest ground in life.

Remember...!!!!

The best thing of being in the lowest ground,
We will see that The Only Way Out is Up

So, Let's decide to Always Climb,
where ever The Life take Us...

For The Mighty God never Fall Asleep,
Heaven helps people who always help their life...

Steve Jobs and The World Hunger...

I saw this Image on My Friend's facebook wall and Stunned. Why People put 2 totally different kind of world shaking news like this...

Quite irrelevant to compare them...

For Steve Jobs had done His Special Contribution to this world and He deserve the News. So the world learn to always dare bring the new Idea and Contribute in many ways possible.

Why don't we make difference like  Steve Jobs did...
Be the change everyone want to see in their life...
Stand as part of the solution not the problem...
Inspire people to make specific move...

Then we won't be 'The Shit'...

Whispering pray in the heart...
For those who are less fortunate...
May they got the strength to endure...

Hopefully one day this problem
will become the biggest concern
of those who still spend so much
on taking the life of others
or those who still letting
some other do so...

May God Change their mind, heart and soul,
so they will do anything in their power
to make the world worth living
for every single creature live on earth
in better tomorrow...

Love Rules The World...

"With you by my side we shall rule the world...
do you believe that...?"
The world belong to those who keep love
as a treasure in their life...

For love is the strongest source of power...

I do believe that,
because Our love is great and grows stronger...

Don't you think...?

Happiness...

‎(A treasure from a Precious One facebook wall...)


Happiness is like a butterfly...

The more you chase it, 
the more it's elude you...

But if you turn your attention
to the other simple fundamental necessities
we face day to day
and allow our positive energy to flow,
it will come and seat softly on your shoulder...

~Mark Hilman

Move, Change, Learn More and Dare to Expand....

Life Lesson ~ October 11

"Always do what you believed is the best,
not what they believed is the best,
and love what you are doing,
because what you are doing is the best...
right...?"

Sometime people choose not to believe what we do,

and tend to stop us from doing what we believe is right...

Although there's no prove if it's the right or the best for Us,
coz everything still goes through process to become

the right one or possibly the best one...

Move, Change, Learn More and Dare to Expand....
That's a Must...

A Precious Friend said the process is...
Aware - Expose - Synchronize - Construct - Mastery - Integrate
(Brain-base Integrated Outline)

To get Our Existence Track in life...

We will mastered many things in life,
if we go through that process over and over again
any time we are restless enough to stay put...

And Our Existence Track will definitely Expand,
for Our inner strength Bear no limit...

The Reasons...

(I appreciate the precious lesson I got, from the people who become a treasure in my life..  So I share their thoughts, because this will make their presence shine an eternal flame in my heart and mind all my life...)


Everything happen for a reason...

People changes,
so that you can learn to let go...

Things go wrong,
so that you can appreciate them,
when things are right...

You believe lies,
so you eventually learn
to trust no one but yourself...

And sometimes good things fall apart,
so that better things can fall together..."


Thank You for today's Lesson Dear...

"Everybody is a gift for human race,
only not everyone realize this role,
and try their best to make a difference..."

Surrender in the wings of love...

Surrender in the wings of love...

It comes to build life,
to make the world worth living...

Let it flow...

From the river of each hearts and minds...
To the greatness of the ocean,
where every souls unite...

Welcome to the glory of love...

For it bring brightness,
and make the one that keep it shine,
in an eternal flame,
That can bring the light,
In to the deepest dark corner,
of any suffering souls...

So they can fly once again,
In peace and harmony,
towards the better tomorrow...

Love with Full Intensity

Sometime...
I feel so stupid,
for love has corrupt my mind
from reality
and I vulnerably
become so unrealistic.

Fortunately...
Love can not measure
by data and fact.

It really upon
the heart that feel it.

Anyway...
I'm glad to accept
that the best thing
I have now is the ability
to feel The Love
with full intensity again...

Perfection...

‎ "The perfection of love is made when love come
to one imperfect life for completing it perfectly... "

Love, Love, Love....

We need love to be happy...
We'll be happy if we share the love we have...
And We can even be happier if we know that
we are loved just the way we are the way we want it to be...
‎"The perfection of love is made when love come
to one imperfect life for completing it perfectly... "

Have a Beautiful Life complete with the beauty of love...

Love Yourself, to Make The Life Worth Living...

Love is the best
healing therapy...

Love yourself,
then you'll have
the health within
your reach...

The universe will provide
the power of love
for those
who treasure life
by loving them selves...

Coz that kind of love
is the most important way
to learn how
to love unconditionally...

The love that can keep
the life worth living...

The Magic Healing

I know,
that love has
the healing power...

Still,
it feels so amazing
to get the experience
myself...

Bless the love...

Thanks so much,
my dear...
For the magic...
I'm so proud to say...
I love you too...

Peaceful Heart and The Voices of Heaven

We must learn to
read which is not written,
hear which is not spoken


Listen to the heart,
for it has the clue,
and it never tell lies...

As long as the soul is pure
and the mind is free...

Coz, only the peaceful heart can receive
the voices of heaven
in the crystal clear connection...

The Inner Strength in Us

When I was at teenage I heard that
We were created of Flesh and Blood,
and born to make mistake.

Now,  I realize that inside We mostly consist of Mind, Heart and Soul.
We made mistakes sometimes, but we also can learn from them.
If We look deeper inside, beyond our Flesh and Blood,
We may see the Inner Lights that can Make Us Shine,
actually with that Light We have no Limits.

We even move in a Quantum Leap...

Anyone may lock our Flesh and Blood bodies,
also put the barriers on them.
But not to Our Mind, Heart and Soul,
where the Lights are coming from.

Our mind, heart and soul
are traveling at The Speed of Light...

Break through every border and barriers,
moving beyond any boundaries,
dancing through the space and time.

Especially when we able to connect
those Three Inner Strength in Us,
to The Mighty Source,
with full speed and clear access.

Nothing can stop Us...

All Souls are Connected,
because We Share the same Responsibility
as The Citizen of Universe
to make The World a Better Place and
to make The Life worth Living.

Later, I also learn that as a woman,
We need to understand more
of these Inner Strength in Us.
Because universe give us Privilege
to pass the Life on to Our Children.

We should realize that
Our Responsibility is not only
to nurture the flesh n body,
but also the mind, heart n soul.
From the earliest stage,
when they are still in our womb...

So, Let’s recognize this strength, and pass it on to the next generation.

Beyond Any Boundaries and Barriers in The Universe

(Spontaneously Written on a comment box of a friend status...)

Beyond any boundaries
God Never Falls Asleep
And all people deserve their dreams..

Why do you give your mind barriers...??

 As long as we have peace and love in the heart
 Then we have The Freedom...

Today no more East and West
 People now think about the CHANCE
to break through beyond their Horizon...
It's more about willingness
to reach a new better life..
No monopoly and domination,
without super power state or cold war...


We will be global, once we realize
that we are citizen of This Universe,
and  we want a better world to live on.
Not only for our own selves,
but for all Mankind and the universe...

I will vote for One United World Under God
Where we created and meant to be Equal...

If you  still see barriers then you need to move from your box...
Take the Journey to The Inside of Your Whole Being

 What do you find..??
Do you see light..??
Can You breath the air of Love..??
Have you felt peace..?? Do you think of Freedom......??

God Bless You...

Always...

In Your absence,

You are always stay
in the center of
my heart and mind...

For a line or two,
I will always try to write you,
just to say I Love You...

Nothing Like...

Nothing like love,
to bring life back to One's soul..

Nothing like hopes,
to allow our dreams fly higher and further..

Nothing like faith,
to make them all come true in Our Life..

Thanks for All the Beauties
You all put in My World...

Tell Me, Is It Real...??

(A Sweet Gift ;)...)

Why will I become addicted to you? What is it? What makes me weak? What is it make me feel to want you?  Is it your mind?  Is it the way you talk? Is it the kiss on your forehead I give each time? Does it do more to me?  Is it not just a kiss for your soul? Is it more a physical attraction?

Do I have the feeling I need to kiss your nose? Do I feel the need to kiss your ear? Or do I want to kiss your neck? Very soft and gentle… What is this heat in me? Coming up so fast..? I feel  difficulty to breath… Your lips, sweet and red, but I am afraid to touch them with my lips, so I put my finger on your lips and I feel the sensation of love...

Shall I leave?  Shall I stay? What does she want me to do…

Finding, Loving and Passionately Living The Life to Feel Alive...

This is come from My Personal Experience, wrote spontaneously in facebook Comments Box... On the Group She's Always a Woman Post :

"When a woman makes the choice to marry, to have children; in one way her life begins but in another way it stops. You build a life of details.You become a mother, a wife and you stop and stay steady so that your children can move. And when they leave they take your life of details with them. And then you're expected to move again only you don't remember what moves you because no-one has asked in so long. Not even yourself. You never in your life think that love like this can happen to you." - The Bridges of Madison County

I was lost completely in Motherhood that taken all my heart, mind and soul... I love My Children and Husband... And gave... in myself 100%... For Giving birth and nurture my 4 children... 3 of them born only in 2 years 10 months... I breastfeed all of them myself, never less than 2 years each... So can you imagine how drawn I was in Love I provide to all the members I have on board...

Although I don't really care of my personal soul and heart need... Because, having children is fulfill me completely at that time... Just by looking at their smile and laughter I feel complete... And giving My Husband a comfort shelter for him to be 'reborn' everyday. That was enough to take all my time...

It was going on until my 9 years in marriage... Then something happen that slap my face... A sister in law come to my home and said "Don't you want to make money on your own... You're still young and educated...!"

It's really not about money, at all... I look in the mirror and see a woman without future of her own... Her only pride is her children and family... She hasn't done anything to for herself and for this world..  (I always dream, my life must mean something to the world.)

I don't want this kind of life... My children are growing... They no longer need 100% of their mother... So I decided to make The Change...

Physically I was look too old, worn and fat.. I'm only 159 cm with 65 kg.. Then the plan was started simply, by making commitment to back in shape again... In 3 months only, I lost 10 kg while still breastfeed my youngest boy...

I got my shape back... And as bonus... I was reborn... Because, the spirit and flame inside me is back too... I started to look for things I can do passionately... Based at home... I can find a good enough nanny to replace me at home... If there's so we probably cant afford them...

Because nothing can replace a woman to do her professional work as a mother... Nobody is good enough to give only the best for her children... The best care, protection, plan, education and love...

But The Mighty Allah never fall asleep... He show me the way to do something for this world from Home... He make me start to write again, as it was my hobby... I share my experience in facebook... My account start from March 2009, and in April 2009 I created a Smart Parenting with Love community Group  in facebook too...

By writing and gathering with people with same concern... I started to feel alive again... And in March 2010, some of my articles was asked by a publisher to be a book without I even need to print it in hard copy...

After the book publish, I was asked to tell my experience on stage... And now here I am... A new me... with mission in life... taking back my life again after gave them all to my family...

The Points You need to learn from my experience... Even if your life trapped at home because of your mothering duty...

Nothing... I really mean NOTHING... can stop your heart, mind and soul to move... You can always do something with passion from home as long as you care enough for the life inside yourself to realize what you really want... Don't feel trapped at home, achieve more...!! Everything is Possible... As long as you keep on dreaming, think big and take action to make it come true... Go beyond yourself...

Finding, loving and passionately living yourself as a woman... is the very important to be a professional mother.. Who knows exactly what her children and husband need, and give the best for them without loosing herself... I wish more woman can be as happy as I am now... This Earth need Happier Women to do something... Because, She's always a Woman... Rite...???  Woman must keep on moving in order to do something for the world...

Not just a choice, happiness is a challenge too... We must fight for the happiness we need... just in case there isn't one in the options we have...Then We can make more options... It's possible, for we have so much love to share with the world...

Bunch of Love,
Arifah H.

The Journey

I'm true to my heart
for admitting all my feelings,
But I wont betray my soul
by refusing to see the right way to take..

The Journey may take forever,
I'll let The Mighty taking over
how to plan all the path I should go
and the direction I must turn...

Paint Others With Rainbows...

The Wound that can not kill you,
can only make you stronger and wiser,
when it healed completely...

Never let anyone paint You, 

in their miserable way of living...

But live beautifully,
and paint others with rainbows...

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To Be Beautiful...

Thank God, finally I understand..
We don't need Make Up,
Nor Going to a Fancy Beauty Care
to be Beautiful...

It is really about
the way we feel of ourselves,
and the way we make people feel about us...

The more we feel good about ourselves
The more others feel good to be with us
The more beautiful we can be...

I am A Moslem, Because...

Maybe I am a moslem because I was born in a moslem family.. And I am just doing all the moslem stuff because everybody else doing so.. I learn religion at school.. Fasting in holy month.. Pray 5 times a day.. reading Qur'an and etc.. I did that because I was told to do so.. And I was afraid not to do so because The Mighty Allah will get angry and eventually, punish me some how..

That was when I was much younger..

Since I got married  and felt the ups and downs in life.. I found that being moslem giving me a chance to find the answer of all my questions about life.. And doing the pray and fasting brought me even closer to the ways how my problem could be solved..  Because I felt that Mighty Allah really answering my questions.. And showing me the ways.. I need all The Moslem Stuff to solve my problems..

That was when I came closer to Allah only when Life brought me down..

When life passed by and I grew wiser..
<Never said older,  coz only wrinkle on my face can proof it,
I’d like to stay sharp, alert and fully charged the way I always be.. >
I have certain better way to live my life..

Now, I can really feel that. As a human, I am consist of body and soul.. I have heart and feeling.. I have brain and mind <The conscious and the unconscious>..  I have Courage and strength..  I have love and happiness.. I have way of life, mindsets, hopes and dreams... Because The Mighty Allah grant me all of those beauties.. save them inside me so I can recall and use them.. As long as I can access them..

And all the moslem stuff I do all my  life make it possible for me to access all those beauty all the time I need then.. Give strength when I was weak,  give me eyes when I couldn’t see, show me where the happiness when sorrow comes, surround me with light in my heart and mind… Show me exactly how a person should live their life...

All so clear when Iam doing my moslem stuff in the right way… I can now feel  it.. He Come running to me when I am walk down my way to get closer… He is as close as my vein as long as I keep my mind to remember Him, and being grateful.. Doing whatever He told me to.. And
avoiding everything that He Hates…

Now Iam doing my pray, my fasting and everything.. because I need it to find the right way.. to hear the voice of heaven that I should write in my notes.. to make my life worth living.. to keep me from falling when life brings me down.. to rise me up so I can stand a mountain. Just like Josh Groban Song..

When I am down and, oh my soul, so weary
When troubles come and my heart burdened be
Then, I am still and wait here in the silence,
Until you come and sit awhile with me.

There is no life - no life without its hunger
Each restless heart beats so imperfectly
But when you come and I am filled with wonder,
Sometimes, I think I glimpse eternity.

You raise me up, so I can stand on mountains
You raise me up, to walk on stormy seas
I am strong, when I am on your shoulders
You raise me up: To more than I can be.

Make The Change

I'd rather not fight or call anyone stupid
they may really don't understand
what they're fighting for..

I would rather smile
and be inspired
to make a change

So I'll be the change I want to see
Then other will see my reason
be inspired and then getting smarter..

Let love be my strength
Vertically to The Creator of this world
Horizontally to the universe

Let's stick together
and make that change...

Unconditional Love

Learning to Love Unconditionally...

Believe that,
The love will eventually back to us
in the surprising way..

You can always love your friend
and people who love you
easily and unconditionally..

But loving the enemy,
only special heart can do..

But once you can do this
You will see the world
in different color..

She's always a woman....

I never thought

I'm lucky to be a woman before

I finally become a mother...

Now I'm a mother of 4 children

Happily married 

and I'm grateful to be a woman...

Coz now I know and Realize

Why we call the place we live on
The Mother Earth

Coz She's always a woman....

When I’m Thinking of S H I N E ...

When the word SHINE is shimmering on your mind what do you think..?? For me I then have an urge to write this note...

Do we ever realize..?? As the citizen of the universe, we have the right and duty to SHINE… No matter what we are or what we made of..

Why do People SHINE..??

Some people are gifted.. The Mighty God shower them with His Light to brighten their way every where they go.. This Gift only be given to Those.. Who Keep the faith on Him in their life.. In every breath they take..N every step they make.. Never once they let Him go off their mind.. So They SHINE like an angel.. Bring brightness everywhere they go.. make even the deepest darkest place in one heart gleaming with their warm light..

Some People have so many talents and do many benefits for others.. That make them SHINE too.. different kind of light but yet it brighten their surrounding...

Some People SHINE because they have the warmest, biggest and kindest heart.. they make people feels good and happy just to be near them..

Some others are so beautiful or handsome.. or so cool.. That look make them SHINE among others and that make people glad to be around them..

Some People just SHINE because they know.. they are extra ordinary and different.. No matter what others think of them.. they know in this life we have a job to make a difference.. They SHINE to make others realize.. everybody has the right and duty to SHINE too.. And make The CHANGE..

Some of Us must have realized now that every single one of Us have one different piece of the universe jigsaw puzzle as our one and only role on This Planet.. Playing our own role bein the universe will make Some People SHINE..

Some People like You and Me..
Hopefully..

S O U L M A T E S

When we’re down, when we’re sad or when we feel alone… There’s an emptiness inside our soul… We need other souls to fulfill it… And the souls that come around and fulfilling the need will be our soulmates … Whether or not those souls are related to us in any relation whatsoever…

When we fully charge, with all the dreams that we want to reach... Standing tall, setting up our path to make those dream come true… Our soul is so full of spirit, it’s like a generator that provides loads of positive energy…Make us feel like a rocket ship on our way to mars, or like an atom bomb about to explode (Don’t stop me now!,Queen)... At that point our soul needs to share the energy that generated in it… Other souls that come around sharing thoughts and dreams… Together creating a way to set the goals and all the actions need to make the dream come true… Those souls are also our soulmates…

Other time, somehow we may find out other soul is in the stage of needing others to give an encouragement. There’s a strong call inside to be there catching the reaching out soul…And help…That is a soulmate’s call. You don’t need to be anybody’s anything nor the reason to be there, just be there because one soul need you to be. That’s soulmate too.

Soulmate preferably is coming from the closest place… Our husband or wife, our brother and sister, our children and our best friends… Some people think soulmate doesn’t really need to be somebody around us, they can come from somewhere else… But some other suggest not to have soulmates from different gender, because it’s too risky…

In my own opinion, and experience…in the internet era… where we’re linked to people all over the world in only one click away… Here in Facebook, soulmates can be found everywhere… Just with a single sentence of encouragements, will do… We may never see them in life…Never hear their voice…Never know what they do for living…Or their past life… Never mind it all… Their respons to all our status or notes or links, showing their attention... These people can be our soulmates in life... We can share our view n value…our dreams and goals…even our sorrows…

So, I will say soulmates aren’t always our lover, husband or wife, best friends or relatives… There’s nothing to do with loyalty in marriage, even no gender boundary… Soulmates are people around us to whom we share precious things in life…There’s no lust nor love…We only having things in common and same vision towards life... then we find soulmates who will make our life even richer…

When we talk and think about soul, we must understand that we are connected to the soul’s Source… People all over this world come from One and Only Source…The Mighty Allah SWT Him Self… So we can connect our soul to any other souls in the universe to share our thoughts and feeling, especially in our duty to make better life out of us for better future.

So let’s hand in hand, heal the world, make it a better place by connecting our souls in this mission…