May 23, 2011

Paint Others With Rainbows...

The Wound that can not kill you,
can only make you stronger and wiser,
when it healed completely...

Never let anyone paint You, 
in their miserable way of living...

But live beautifully,
and paint others with rainbows...

May 21, 2011

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To Be Beautiful...


Thank God, finally I understand..
We don't need Make Up,
Nor Going to a Fancy Beauty Care
to be Beautiful...

It is really about
the way we feel of ourselves,
and the way we make people feel about us...

The more we feel good about ourselves
The more others feel good to be with us
The more beautiful we can be...

May 20, 2011

I am A Moslem, Because...

Maybe I am a moslem because I was born in a moslem family.. And I am just doing all the moslem stuff because everybody else doing so.. I learn religion at school.. Fasting in holy month.. Pray 5 times a day.. reading Qur'an and etc.. I did that because I was told to do so.. And I was afraid not to do so because The Mighty Allah will get angry and eventually, punish me some how..

That was when I was much younger..

Since I got married  and felt the ups and downs in life.. I found that being moslem giving me a chance to find the answer of all my questions about life.. And doing the pray and fasting brought me even closer to the ways how my problem could be solved..  Because I felt that Mighty Allah really answering my questions.. And showing me the ways.. I need all The Moslem Stuff to solve my problems..

That was when I came closer to Allah only when Life brought me down..

When life passed by and I grew wiser..
<Never said older,  coz only wrinkle on my face can proof it,
I’d like to stay sharp, alert and fully charged the way I always be.. >
I have certain better way to live my life..

Now, I can really feel that. As a human, I am consist of body and soul.. I have heart and feeling.. I have brain and mind <The conscious and the unconscious>..  I have Courage and strength..  I have love and happiness.. I have way of life, mindsets, hopes and dreams... Because The Mighty Allah grant me all of those beauties.. save them inside me so I can recall and use them.. As long as I can access them..

And all the moslem stuff I do all my  life make it possible for me to access all those beauty all the time I need then.. Give strength when I was weak,  give me eyes when I couldn’t see, show me where the happiness when sorrow comes, surround me with light in my heart and mind… Show me exactly how a person should live their life...

All so clear when Iam doing my moslem stuff in the right way… I can now feel  it.. He Come running to me when I am walk down my way to get closer… He is as close as my vein as long as I keep my mind to remember Him, and being grateful.. Doing whatever He told me to.. And
avoiding everything that He Hates…

Now Iam doing my pray, my fasting and everything.. because I need it to find the right way.. to hear the voice of heaven that I should write in my notes.. to make my life worth living.. to keep me from falling when life brings me down.. to rise me up so I can stand a mountain. Just like Josh Groban Song..

When I am down and, oh my soul, so weary
When troubles come and my heart burdened be
Then, I am still and wait here in the silence,
Until you come and sit awhile with me.

There is no life - no life without its hunger
Each restless heart beats so imperfectly
But when you come and I am filled with wonder,
Sometimes, I think I glimpse eternity.

You raise me up, so I can stand on mountains
You raise me up, to walk on stormy seas
I am strong, when I am on your shoulders
You raise me up: To more than I can be.





Make The Change

I'd rather not fight or call anyone stupid
they may really don't understand
what they're fighting for..

I would rather smile
and be inspired
to make a change

So I'll be the change I want to see
Then other will see my reason
be inspired and then getting smarter..

Let love be my strength
Vertically to The Creator of this world
Horizontally to the universe

Let's stick together
and make that change...

May 11, 2011

Unconditional Love

Learning to Love Unconditionally...

Believe that,
The love will eventually back to us
in the surprising way..

You can always love your friend
and people who love you
easily and unconditionally..

But loving the enemy,
only special heart can do..

But once you can do this
You will see the world
in different color..


She's always a woman....


I never thought
I'm lucky to be a woman before
I finally become a mother...

Now I'm a mother of 4 children
Happily married 
and I'm grateful to be a woman...
Coz now I know and Realize
Why we call the place we live on
The Mother Earth
Coz She's always a woman....

When I’m Thinking of S H I N E ...

When the word SHINE is shimmering on your mind what do you think..?? For me I then have an urge to write this note...

Do we ever realize..?? As the citizen of the universe, we have the right and duty to SHINE… No matter what we are or what we made of..

Why do People SHINE..??

Some people are gifted.. The Mighty God shower them with His Light to brighten their way every where they go.. This Gift only be given to Those.. Who Keep the faith on Him in their life.. In every breath they take..N every step they make.. Never once they let Him go off their mind.. So They SHINE like an angel.. Bring brightness everywhere they go.. make even the deepest darkest place in one heart gleaming with their warm light..

Some People have so many talents and do many benefits for others.. That make them SHINE too.. different kind of light but yet it brighten their surrounding...

Some People SHINE because they have the warmest, biggest and kindest heart.. they make people feels good and happy just to be near them..

Some others are so beautiful or handsome.. or so cool.. That look make them SHINE among others and that make people glad to be around them..

Some People just SHINE because they know.. they are extra ordinary and different.. No matter what others think of them.. they know in this life we have a job to make a difference.. They SHINE to make others realize.. everybody has the right and duty to SHINE too.. And make The CHANGE..

Some of Us must have realized now that every single one of Us have one different piece of the universe jigsaw puzzle as our one and only role on This Planet.. Playing our own role bein the universe will make Some People SHINE..

Some People like You and Me..
Hopefully..





S O U L M A T E S



When we’re down, when we’re sad or when we feel alone… There’s an emptiness inside our soul… We need other souls to fulfill it… And the souls that come around and fulfilling the need will be our soulmates … Whether or not those souls are related to us in any relation whatsoever…

When we fully charge, with all the dreams that we want to reach... Standing tall, setting up our path to make those dream come true… Our soul is so full of spirit, it’s like a generator that provides loads of positive energy…Make us feel like a rocket ship on our way to mars, or like an atom bomb about to explode (Don’t stop me now!,Queen)... At that point our soul needs to share the energy that generated in it… Other souls that come around sharing thoughts and dreams… Together creating a way to set the goals and all the actions need to make the dream come true… Those souls are also our soulmates…

Other time, somehow we may find out other soul is in the stage of needing others to give an encouragement. There’s a strong call inside to be there catching the reaching out soul…And help…That is a soulmate’s call. You don’t need to be anybody’s anything nor the reason to be there, just be there because one soul need you to be. That’s soulmate too.

Soulmate preferably is coming from the closest place… Our husband or wife, our brother and sister, our children and our best friends… Some people think soulmate doesn’t really need to be somebody around us, they can come from somewhere else… But some other suggest not to have soulmates from different gender, because it’s too risky…

In my own opinion, and experience…in the internet era… where we’re linked to people all over the world in only one click away… Here in Facebook, soulmates can be found everywhere… Just with a single sentence of encouragements, will do… We may never see them in life…Never hear their voice…Never know what they do for living…Or their past life… Never mind it all… Their respons to all our status or notes or links, showing their attention... These people can be our soulmates in life... We can share our view n value…our dreams and goals…even our sorrows…

So, I will say soulmates aren’t always our lover, husband or wife, best friends or relatives… There’s nothing to do with loyalty in marriage, even no gender boundary… Soulmates are people around us to whom we share precious things in life…There’s no lust nor love…We only having things in common and same vision towards life... then we find soulmates who will make our life even richer…

When we talk and think about soul, we must understand that we are connected to the soul’s Source… People all over this world come from One and Only Source…The Mighty Allah SWT Him Self… So we can connect our soul to any other souls in the universe to share our thoughts and feeling, especially in our duty to make better life out of us for better future.

So let’s hand in hand, heal the world, make it a better place by connecting our souls in this mission…



Wings of The Pheonix

The stars knew how long I've been wandering to find the heart that beats in tandem with mine.. The sun noticed how far I'd like to t...