I Am Divergent

"I don't want to be just one thing. I want to be brave and selfless, and smart, and kind, and honest..."
~ Four - Divergent


I'm in LOVE... Wow... !!!!
For the first time in forever I wish to be 10 years younger...
Silly... Hahahaha...

It's been a long time since I watched a movie that moved me from head to heel, and around. I thought it was just because of the totally cool male cast - Four, which gave the effect of watching Tom Cruise for the first time in Top Gun, that got stronger after I watched Interview with The Vampire, A Few Good Men and Mission : Impossible (all series).

Well, yes I'm a fan of Tom Cruise, yet that didn't make me surf the net for wallpapers, facebook fanpage, twitter account and websites for Divergent and Four, like today. I search wiki and youtube for more story and scenes. I even put Four's coolest image I found online in my phone as a wallpaper. 

He has A deadly stunned and definitely melted look
in his eyes, don't you think...????

And the last, I order two books of the trilogy, Divergent and Insurgent online after I read the resumes in wikipedia, too bad I can't found Allegiant, it is not translated yet. I know, I would love to find and read the original copies, but usually the translated books which were printed here is way lot cheaper than the original verse.

I guess, I didn't feel this way for The Hunger Games, although I had read the trilogy before I did watched the movie. Yup, sounds like this time I got struck by temporal insanity. But I decide to go with the flow, it felt good anyway.

At least now I know, there's a word for people like me.
I am Divergent... hahahaha...



Bunch of Love,

ArifaH

PS :
Little something for you,
who hasn't got a chance to watch divergent,My Favorite Scene...

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wF5DXvApbuU

Inner Peace for The Neurotic Mother...

On my yoga instructor wall post I read :

"What are people's problems?"
They can be reduced to one thing: the mother, because the mother was not able of giving a spiritual womb. Psychologically she was neurotic, spiritually she was empty, so there was no spiritual food for the child, no nourishment. (...) The mother was not centered; how can the child be centered? The child is simply a continuation, a continuity of the mother's being. If one sees all the implications of it, fewer people will decide to become fathers and mothers. And it would be a better world if fewer people decided to be mothers and fathers. It would be less crowded, less neurotic, less pathological, less crazy. ~The Book of Children - Osho

(This post definitely tickled my consciousness, that make me write this blog..)

I do agree that every mother needs to have an inner strength to pass on their children from the very day they enter her womb till the day she begins to nurture their body, mind, heart n soul till they are off from her house.

But who's to blame if a mother is not integrated with her own inner being...???

I guess this is where a husband/father of the children will come in handy. Raising children definitely a kind of 'It takes TWO to Tango' action. Some people even said it takes a village to raise a child. Nurture a mother heart and soul is a must, if she is not in peace with her inner being.

So, if you're a mother and consciously realize that you're not in peace with the life inside your being to access your inner strength.

Do yourself a favor :
» Spare yourself a moment of silence
» Pack your body, mind, heart and soul up in one place
» Get them aligned with your inner spirit
» Let each one of them speak and listen carefully to all those voices of what they really want and need
» Do not argue or debate any of them, hear their reason no matter how absurd they seem, they are YOU
» Let your inner spirit access The Source in a prayer, with all those voices, visualize a peaceful way out, where a win win solution occur, let the heart be your guide here
» Once you can see the visualization of a peaceful way out, let your mind work on every possible passages to create an action plan, so you can live in peace with yourself
» Only then you can maintain a healthy connection with all people around you

Remember :
» The win-win solution and the best agreement are only there in the menu, if you can manage a healthy negotiation with any people around you
» Use your inner spirit to get in touch with other people spirit, to do so a peaceful clarity inside is a must
» You have an equal right with any people around you to live in a peaceful life

You may not be agree with what I believe. But if you can follow my idea, these tips might be useful to do in your meditating session. I use this to handle my own anger, especially when I face one of my temper tantrum stage.

Welcome a new way of life,
Happy Reborn

 




















Bunch of Love,

ArifaH

Finding Our Own Stream ...

“I have been and still am a seeker, but I have ceased to question stars and books; I have begun to listen to the teaching my blood whispers to me.” ~ Hermann Hesse

It is really good to understand that life is always about, finding our own stream. Following the way we need to flow is always the best way to live rather than going with others...

Yet... Every river will end at the sea shore and become one in the same ocean. Although we might not go through the same river, but our beginning and our end most likely have a oneness within. As clear as the silver lining light in the sky that show us, we are living under the same sun and moon...

As for me learning is always my way of living. I learn about science as I learn about human. I learn to tone my muscle at gym as I learn to stretch my flesh and blood in yoga class. I simply love to learn, as I know my curiosity has always been the best way to energize the life in me.

But I guess, learning about many different matters in life never bring me closer to the truest truth about my life. Not until I learn about the life inside me, I found the true knowledge to live this life the way my own true nature should be...

Thanks for all challenge many of you have thrown at me, that always bring me closer to the core of my being, so I can find my way to flow my own stream.

Happily, Gracefully, Beautifully...
With the LOVE that always lighten up my way...

Bunch of Love,

ArifaH