January 31, 2012

When We Say Wait and See...

Heaven will help changing things
for people who try to change their life...

So We can only say wait and see,
after We have finished doing our part
in make a difference...
 
Then nothing more We can do except waiting,
for the final result to come...

We must have the strong faith
that new things will come for the best
and Better Tomorrow does exist...

Free Talkshow : Building a Smart Generation from Home..

Thank God...  I met My Old Buddy which has become a  Marketer Lady... She agree with My Mission that Parenting is a very serious matter in life... As parents We must hand in hand together in creating a better generation for the sake of Making The World a Better Place...

She invite me to speak on a talk show and start building a Parenting Club in her son's Kindergarten...

So for those Who are living round Jakarta Please Welcome to Our Smart Parenting with Love Talk show ... "Building a Smart Generation from Home.."


 The Talk show will be held Tomorrow :




 


















Wednesday, February 1, 2012
Time, 08.30 - 10.00 am (GMT +7)
 

Take a Place at Al Mubarak Islamic Kindergarten
Jl Raya Ciledug, Jombang Pondok Aren,
South Tangerang

RSVP by phone : 02174862441
FREE of CHARGE

See You There...
Hopefully...


January 30, 2012

A Little about True Happiness...

Happiness is always connected to how we maintain
the position of Love, Hope and Faith in Our Life
Connect them to our dreams and God Will
The very reason we are created on earth
and living the life that we have..

Happiness is not about money,
pretty face, knowledge, religion,
power and all human possession
that can distracted our way
to find the meaning of life..


Happiness is within..

It is about how we use all we got
to make the life worth living
and reach the ultimate meaning
of having the best life..

Life is So Beautiful...

When I can be happy of being who I am
and have dignity to be no more but no less
than just Me..

While I know all that I have got in life
can be used to get what I really want..

At this time I must have realized about My Own Need
and determine to reach higher to fulfill it..

Then I will try to make all people
who live around me accept
and love me for who I am..

Or they can choose to leave me alone
and let me just live my beautiful life
in my own way...

Universal True Lover

Love is universal
and belong to the real lover,
flows beyond physical,
even cross gender boundary...

Love travel in the speed of light,
leaping through the space and time,
make anyone who has it in their life
united under The Source...


Love is energy that fuel the life...
True Lover love unconditionally,
means Love fully without expectation,
for Love is always enough for Love...

So help me God to let The True Lover in me out..

January 29, 2012

Live for The Moment

Let go off the past
and set Our mind free from yesterday
and also from the future uncertainty...

Live for the moment
and make the best of it...

This is one of the direction
to find true happiness
that can make us shine...

That Love is Mine, Hopefully...

Love is around us to share,
but not to claim..

If at some point love claim the life,
then it is no longer love..

For love come to build the life,
never to destroy it..

Love is always enough for love
Human tends to complicate it
with too many senses emotionally..

Let's Choose Never Stop Growing

Life is so full of choices...

Choose to live the way We need it
Let people around Us learn and grow with Us
As We grow with them...

None of Us should stop growing
Let's live fully and be very much alive
Because We worth it...


So We can love the life with full intensity
and live it with full capacity...

Life is More Than About Making Fortune...

Sometime it feels so awful if We are not able to make fortune,
while We actually realize that We are worthy and deserve it,
But none of  Our Talent seems to get the chance to bring the money home...

Sometime this situation can make Us feel life is so unfair,
while We see people around Us can at least make something
that We couldn't...

But All the time I always try to remember,
that God never falls asleep...

He gives me this life for a reason
then I wish for the ability to see His reasons clearly
So I can always live in peace with what I am
and be happy for other people fortune...

Because Life is more than just about Making Fortune for Us to Live,
but it is about Making The Life We Have a Fortune for The Living...

Learn from Our Presence and Absence...

There is some point in life
when We really need to be disappeared...

So people can learn from Our Absence,
and appreciate Our Presence more...

Then they know...
that they should never leave Us alone
nor let Us down...

And eventually We can smile brightly
because finally Our feeling is matter for them...

January 27, 2012

Note for My Beloved Daughter in Her Birthday

by Arifah Handayani on Friday, January 27, 2012 at 11:13am


"For the loveliest teenage in the world...
My Dear Daughter Netta Seven-e
Happy 12th Anniversary...

Another year is added to your age
May God always add His Perfection in Your Life beautifully

Another year is reduced from your lifetime
May God always give Brightness to see all His Plan for You

So, there will never be a day wasted
Every single second that flies will give you meaning
As the lesson for the next journey
which can open all the secret
of Your true role before God for the universe
The very reason you are created

In every pray I whisper your name
May God always be there in every breath You take
Giving color to your blood flow
Sounding in your heart beat
Echoing your step to every where you go

I just want to give you the best escort
so you can find your own life
the way it is written in your own life scenario
as beautiful as you dance through every minutes of it

My dear daughter, please note this...

Your destiny is written and re-write
according to the way You live Your Life...

So, live this love and love it beautifully,
for all the best plan the universe could ever provide You
May You get only the greatest episodes in life...

Never know that time can travel so fast
and You are suddenly Slipping Through My Fingers... "























Slipping Through My Fingers - Meryl Streep - Lyrics


January 24, 2012

Let Love Make Us Fly Far and High...

I will never crawl again,
asking for love...

Instead,

the universe will watch me fly far and high,
because I have so much love,
and I always learn how to love...

It will never be me,
whose lost the love,
for all people will want to be loved,
fully and eternally...

And now I believe,
love will always come back to me unconditionally,
because I deserve it...

























Let's fly far and high...
Let Love be the fuel not the burden...








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January 22, 2012

To My Best Buddies in Life...

(I wrote this to all of My Best Buddies in life,
from childhood, teenage life, university days
and beyond...)



Because You are all my precious gift in life
I would not let time and space fade you behind...

Take this as words of love from a real friend,
for real friends are scarce in this stage of life...

That is why I took the journey to the past
in order to recollect all my best buddies...

Where ever You are...
What ever You do...

Please note,
that we are still friends
and always be
till my last breath...

January 21, 2012

Beauty and Evil in My Eyes

I can see beauty with my eyes close..
But I cant hardly see evil with open eyes..

God forbid me..

Because I always believe
there is beauty side
in every single human being..

Even in the most evil heart..

We just have to touch it
with a beauty in Us
from the most sincere heart..




Finding The Path to Make A Difference

'What you "do" makes a difference, 
and YOU have to "decide" what kind of "difference" 
YOU want to make.' ♥
 ~ Amani


Realizing that we are Unique and Different is the first step...
Make Difference is in all human Life Path
because every single one of us is a piece
of universal jigsaw puzzle...

The next question is what piece of universal jigsaw
that God has given in our life to fulfill
because it is only for us
and we are the best one on earth 

to complete that piece
and connect with other pieces...


Find our path by exploring the star in Us,
Combine it with Our own Unique Element,

then Connect it with our dreams in life...

That's My path to Make Difference...

(Element = the place where the things that we love meet the things that we good at)


The Difference We are gonna make is not Our decision
It is written in Our Life Destiny as A Path We must Travel
All we have to do is take the journey into the inner of Us
then take them all out..

It is not a matter of deciding
but completely about finding...


















January 19, 2012

The Story of Me, Us & Now...


This post was written last year before TheClimate Project Asia Pacific Summit January 2011 as a
Pre-Summit Assignment by Arifah Handayani on Thursday, January 6, 2011 at 11:05am









(What are the experiences and values that call you to take leadership in tackling the climate crisis?)

My Stories...

“There are no extra pieces in the universe. Everyone is here because he or she has a place to fill, and every piece must fit itself into the big jigsaw puzzle.”
~Deepak Chopra

For almost 10 years of my marriage, I was a full time mom at home for my 4 children. But then something was changed in my life. Something inside me was turning on. Like Anthony Robbins ever wrote “Awakening The Giant Within“, On March 2009 The giant in me was arose.

It was started when I was able to set my dream again. At that time I realized if I could dream about anything, I certainly must have dream about making the world a better place for my children and their children live on. Like MJ one sing in his song…

“If You wanna make the world a better place,
Take look at yourself and make that change..” (Man in the Mirror)

I have set my new dreams and reach my goals now… And those dream and goals really about to change my life…

I do believe, the change will move faster through me. So, I must have thought of something I could do from home to make the change with my own hand. I know for sure there should be something. Then I thought about what do I have in me to share with the closest world around me…

I love writing and know for sure, I have stories to tell. Mostly about rising my children in the past 10 years of my life. I have put all of myself in that ground. My time, my energy, my thoughts and my dreams, I gave them all to my job as a Full Time Mother…

So I wrote my stories and always published them in my facebook wall.That was how I found out many people love my stories and the way I wrote them. From writing my experience, I generate my community. On May 2010 some of my stories was published in a book…

I wrote once, that by giving our children the best home-base education, we are creating a better future. Talking about the climate change is one of our issue in my home-base education. I watch Mr Al Gore’s film, Inconvenient Truth with My 3 Pre-schoolers, and discus the film too. They understand why we must do something to stop the global warming and how the climate change can affect our life…

I was graduated from IPB, my major was Marine Science. My final assignment was about how climate/weather change could influence the marine exploration. I think, talking about climate change to my kids is not too far from my experience and knowledge…

With The Community I generate and knowledge about the climate change, I have a plan to awaken the awareness of all the parents and teachers in my community about the fact, that we must do something about the climate change. And, we can start it by doing something from home…

(Express the values of the communities in which we participate (family, faith, and nation) and of emergent communities we are forming ...) How do you describe the group of people who have joined you? Why are they called to take leadership in the climate crisis?

Smart Parenting with Love Community  https://www.facebook.com/bundaarifah.handayani was generated on July 2009, because of my stories that I shared with the members. Now our Fan Page in facebook has over 27,000 fans. In March 2010 We made a public event, A talk show about home-base education to prepare our children before they enter a formal school. And on June 2010 some articles published as a book call Smart Parenting with Love.

Our community consist of parents and teachers who concern about giving the best process in rising and educating their children/students. We talk about a lot of things we must aware to learn as parents and teachers. And climate change is one of the important fact we all must aware to learn. So, we can prepare our children and students to be ready for becoming agents of change when the time come…

The universe has calling. Do we have the good intention to meet the call…??

I think Smart Parenting with Love Community must prepare to be ready, We will do something to meet the universal call… We are a bunch of positive people on the move. We are on the way in making the world a better place. Surely We are ready to make a difference…

I was so glad having the chance to join the summit, looking forward to learn more from The Climate Reality Project and Mr Al Gore Himself…

Sincerely,
Arifah Handayani

January 17, 2012

Committed in Helping Others


"I will never let anyone who needs help pass,
without having a little of help from me,
as much as I can do at that moment..."

That was the commitment I made 6 years ago,
when my little boy was off hooked from surgery table.
I knew at that moment Only God could help him.

It was only miracle that can save him from the surgery knife…
Let’s Help others not because We want to be a hero
But really because we know that as human we are helpless.
We will always need God's help.

Committed in Helping others make You deserve God's Help, always...

Thanks to You...


Now I know the meaning of Being Beautiful...

Thanks to You...
for all the attempts you do for me
to Stay Beautiful,
to Rise and Shine,
to let The Caterpillar in me Grow,
to be The Most Beautiful Butterfly in My Garden Heart,

Stay there, right where you are...
The Butterfly will meet her destiny to fly far and high...

She need a Strong Escort 
to give her company
to catch her when she falls

to tell her that the way is hard,
long and winding but she will always
be strong enough to carry on

to remind her on the hope and faith of better tomorrow
that nothing will stop her to do what she has to do in her destiny
that The Heaven is smiling at her all over this journey





















Thank God I found You,
and went through the ups and downs
in our friendship story that make me strong...




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To be beautiful means to be yourself. You don’t need to be accepted by others. You need to accept yourself.... Thich Nhat Hanh

January 16, 2012

Write to Me...

Please write to Me..
About My Presence and Absence..

As You know Me..

By Reading all which isn't written..
And Hearing all which isn't spoken..
In Me...

I'm waiting..

Solitude is Splendid

The great thing about solitude,
I can be with anyone I want..

Most of all,
I can be alone with myself..

In solitude..

I may find the clearance
so I get the ability to look in,
and take the journey to the inside,
for embracing the inner strength in me..


In solitude..

I have nothing better than
my heart and mind to present
all connected by the purity of my soul
when I felt You the most..

Packed and written
by all the words we share
while I have you by my side
together or in solitude..

White and Pure Love

White as snow even in the middle of the darkest night...
Pure and lovely as the scent of Jasmine...

Being loved so warm and true...
Can always rise one spirit up...

Where ever You are...
What ever You do...
Just by You...

Wings of The Pheonix

The stars knew how long I've been wandering to find the heart that beats in tandem with mine.. The sun noticed how far I'd like to t...