Something About Marriage...

People said :

"Everybody is not complete until the marriage,
to get married is about commitment
to spent the life together
and complete each other life..."




My friend ask me :

If a marriage is about commitment
to spent the life together and complete each other life.
Why some people are married
but think otherwise and do cruel things...??


My Answer :

Because it takes two to marry,
and it takes a lot more than that
to make marriage worked...

Also there's always the temptations
and some people around
that may hi-jack the marriage journey...

And as some people think,
all people have the right
to be happy and feel ALIVE..

Sometime it's very hard to stay married and feel Alive,
especially when marriage suck The Life out of You,
instead of complete Your Life...

















That's why some people Need to Make 'The Change'
and think that They 'Really' need Something New in their Life
to prevent them from 'Dying Inside'...

You can not claim this kind of effort Cruel,
because they just refuse to be buried Alive...

Only sometime it's so hard
to find 'The Right Way'
for getting out of this situation...

And to make things even uglier,
some people who received the SOS signal
tend to take this for granted,
and reacted to it just for fun or worse...

But The Best Thing in Life is, God Never Falls Asleep...
He answer every Pray and Cry for Help that People Send
And Give 'The Right Way Out' for them...

All The Kids are Gifted...

There's no such gifted kids,
because they are all gifted...

We just have to reveal,
which gift that each of them have...

Connect and activate that Gift to their life
That's Our Challenge as Parents...

We can't really help them there
Unless we already have our own gift
connected, activated and integrated
in Our Lives...

Where are we...???

About The Darkness and The Storm in Life

This one is for My Twin Lita Ariani...

She wrote :
"It is not when the sky is bright.
It is when the sky is getting darker,
a star seems to appear.
Giving its light and beauty to decorate the sky..."

I will never forget the darkness
when we built this piece together, Dear...
As I always believe...

The Darkness only come to make
The Stars in us twinkling...

Sometime The Stars refuse to twinkle
when there is black shadow of clouds in the sky...

But We have to keep moving on
because in Us there is the power to dare the cloud
to make the storm coming and sweep the shadow away...

We all know life is about choices...

We can always choose waiting for
the storm to pass with patience

Or We would rather have
the courage to step outside
and dance in the rain with passion..

Choose one that serve Us the most,
which can make only the best out of Us...

Beautiful is Everything in Us...

Somebody wrote...

"Everything is beautiful,
but beautiful isn’t everything..."

I just thought…

Everything can be beautiful,
if we think of everything beautifully
Especially when it come to Our own beauty...

Life is beautiful anyway…

So, Beautiful should be everything in Us...
No matter what other people may think...

The Highest Dream...

A Soulmate  wrote to me…
“Wish you reach your highest dream…”
Make me think of What is actually The Highest Dream…???

And suddenly I just wrote this…

The Highest Dream is the place where we meet our real destiny
 The one reason we are created here in the universe
As I always believe our destiny is written and rewrite
according to the way  we live our lives…

So The Highest Dream is likely expanding
There will be no certain point to reach
It is more about the journey to get there…

As Parents,
We want our children to reach their highest dream
But we must realize there is no way for  Us
to tell our children about the path to reach higher
unless  we have really been there..

So Let’s start to find the star in us
and walk our journey to reach The Highest Dream
before we help our children finding their own star
and walking on their own path to reach The Highest Dream

Please do help Us, God...

"Somewhere over the rainbow
Way up high,
There's a land that I heard of
Once in a lullaby.
Somewhere over the rainbow
Skies are blue,
And the dreams that you dare to dream
Really do come true."
~ Jason Castro
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=34I7LZwQdes&feature=related